The calling game dating
How everybody wins: Maintaining your own life acts like claustrophobia kryptonite.
"When you show that you like him but your world doesn't revolve around him, it says you're confident and self-reliant — two very sexy traits to a guy," says Argov.
"You think you're bonding, but he thinks you're an open book to everyone." What you censor — about your exes, family, friends, even your schedule — can be more powerful than what you reveal.
So talk about your job and interests but stay mum about the juicier details.
He quickly surprised her with tickets to the theater and a bouquet of roses for the following Sunday.
"Being booked was all it took to jostle him into action," says Georgia.
"We started talking, and within minutes, Ken came over..didn't leave my side all night." Make him feel like he has to fight for your attention.
Casually talk to cute men in his presence, mention male friends in your conversations ("Javier said the funniest thing the other day..."), and let him witness other guys checking you out.
"Men feel disoriented when you disclose intimate details too soon," says Kreidman."Over dinner, Andy asked me if I was seeing other people.I just said teasingly, 'Well, I certainly don't stay home alone.' I could see the intrigue was killing him." How everybody wins: Where there's secrecy, there's interest.To really work the strategy, end dates and phone calls first, and cryptically mention your other plans with little or no elaboration."When Dom and I first started dating, we would have brunch every Sunday," says Georgia, 26.