Dating a widower problems
About 600,000 people lose their spouses every year, but only 200,000 (one-third) are men.
Many older widows also discover and enjoy new freedoms in their lives after a spouse’s death.
Maybe they're new to the dating scene and are nervous; maybe they've just come off the back of a long-term relationship; maybe they're grieving for a loved one and are struggling to come to terms with their loss.
For someone who has been recently widowed, there's a good chance that all three of the above scenarios are true.
Research published in the Journal of Marriage and Family in 2004 found that widowers’ interest in dating or remarriage depended on the amount of social support men received from friends.
However, there's no doubt that everyone comes with his or her fair share of emotional baggage, the weight of which differs depending on the individual.In the book, "Dating a Widower" (Ben Lomond Press, .99) Abel Keogh discusses this topic as an expert.After all, he was widowed nearly 10 years ago and has since remarried.They were unwilling to swap these benefits for companionship plus the possibility of becoming caretakers later on.Another issue is that widowers often lack the close friendships common among women, relationships that can help them buffer the loneliness of loss.